My name is Adrianna Kowalski, but my friends and family call me A.J. I'm seeking a pen pal, someone who piques my interests by sharing my likes/dislikes and who can support, accept, and appreciate me for who I am, which is what I fully will give in return. The joy of my world is my young son who is growing up too fast. He's very into sports, which means I am also into a variety of sports. I'm a huge NFL fan. I am strong willed and tough on the outside but I'm sensitive and generous to those I grow close to. I would do anything for my mate to make them happy and comfortable, however it takes a very unique person for me to present that gift of myself. I am always in good spirits, priding myself in being absent the typical mood swings of the average females, but at the same time I can handle business if someone takes me to that level, a quality a lot of men have complimented me for in the past. I am 5 ft. 7 in., 135 lbs., with short, choppy (feminine) dark blond hair. Caucasian with a deep bronze summer tan, I work out daily doing Pilates, aerobics, and yoga to keep my body toned and fit. I am college educated, and I currently have a job with the MVA unit in the prison, which doesn't pay great but it is excellent preparation for when I get home.

I am looking for someone I can develop a firm mental bond with from a distance so a potentially physical relationship when I get home will be electric. I believe a strong mental connection is key to a healthy relationship. I'm not only passionate but a super friend and attentive listener. I derive my own pleasure from pleasing my mate by any means necessary be it a simple gesture of a card or your favorite midnight snack.

I was raised Christian in a small conservative town, but today I am more spiritual than practicing religious. I retain some small town values and appreciate the simple things in life, but I also have a taste for the finer things and an appreciation for quality. I listen to all kinds of music, but I prefer rock and some country. In my spare time, I enjoy reading, making crafts for my son, getting pedicures, watching reruns of my favorite crime dramas on TV, indulging in new CDs to escape my reality into a dream state, and walking outdoors to meditate about my future plans. I don't do drugs, and when I'm home I drink alcohol on special occasions and to let loose after a long week. I love fun, spontaneous vacations at the beach or a relaxing trip to a cabin with no phone service. I'm addicted to chocolate, dental floss, and ice coffee. My favorite color is green.

I hope this short description has attracted your interest to me, and although I have never opened myself up to strangers like this, I'm really hoping to find someone special with whom I can begin a lifelong friendship and maybe more. I'm not shy, so ask whatever you want. I anxiously await your response, so don't keep me waiting!

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